FetLife was founded in 2008 with a simple mission: to create a community where people interested in BDSM, kink, and fetish could connect without judgment. At the time, few platforms catered to this niche, and many members of the community felt isolated or misunderstood. Our founder recognized a need for a safe, non-judgmental space for self-expression and connection—and FetLife was born.
Since then, FetLife has grown to become the world’s largest social network for the BDSM community. We have expanded our platform to serve millions of members across the globe, becoming a central hub for kink enthusiasts, educators, and those curious about alternative lifestyles.
We offer functions and services to help you explore your BDSM life conveniently.
Authenticity: Members can express their genuine interests and identities without fear of stigma.
Inclusivity: FetLife welcomes everyone, regardless of experience level, orientation, or identity.
Education: From discussion groups to informative posts, FetLife provides resources to help members learn about safety, techniques, and the nuances of kink and BDSM.
Connection: Our platform helps members connect with like-minded individuals, find local events, and foster friendships and partnerships.
FetLife’s team is composed of passionate individuals who care deeply about building a positive, supportive environment for our community. From developers to customer staff, every team member shares a commitment to privacy, inclusivity, and respect. While our team remains behind the scenes, their dedication shines through in everything we do to improve the platform for our members. We prioritize your privacy, so you can express yourself openly, knowing that FetLife.com is committed to keeping your experience safe.